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Welcome to Rekindlr
A private space to track the small moments, feelings, and patterns in your relationship. Over time, Rekindlr helps you notice what's working, what's shifting, and where to put your energy.
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About rekindlr.
Rebuilding intimacy, one small win at a time.
rekindlr. is a private AI companion for the intimacy rebuilding journey. Track connection attempts, log non-sexual touch, and discover the patterns that bring you closer. No judgment. No social. Just your data, your patterns.
Every entry feeds into a live dashboard that surfaces what matters: connection frequency, intimacy patterns, mood and energy shifts. Not because an algorithm needs your data, but because you might learn something about what brings you closer.
No tiers. No trials. No feature gates. No investors. Just a tool that helps, built by one person who knows that the hardest conversations start with a single small win.
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Encrypted at rest
Every entry is encrypted with AES-256-GCM before it touches the database. Unique key and random nonce per entry. Even if the database were compromised, your words are unreadable - not even the developer can read them.
Every entry is encrypted with AES-256-GCM before it touches the database. Unique key and random nonce per entry. Even if the database were compromised, your words are unreadable - not even the developer can read them.
No AI training on your data
The LLM that analyses your entries has a strict no-retention policy. Your writing is never used to train models or improve third-party AI systems.
The LLM that analyses your entries has a strict no-retention policy. Your writing is never used to train models or improve third-party AI systems.
Secure auth
Passwords are hashed with bcrypt. Sessions use JWT with refresh token rotation. Tokens expire automatically.
Passwords are hashed with bcrypt. Sessions use JWT with refresh token rotation. Tokens expire automatically.
Your data is yours
Export your complete journal as JSON at any time. Delete your account and everything - entries, analyses, digests - is permanently removed.
Export your complete journal as JSON at any time. Delete your account and everything - entries, analyses, digests - is permanently removed.
Who this can help
1. Couples rebuilding connection
You're working through a rough patch and want to track the small wins. Rekindlr helps you see progress on the days it feels like nothing is changing.
You're working through a rough patch and want to track the small wins. Rekindlr helps you see progress on the days it feels like nothing is changing.
2. People in dead bedrooms
When intimacy has stalled, tracking non-sexual touch and gentle attempts helps break the cycle of avoidance. Patterns emerge that conversations miss.
When intimacy has stalled, tracking non-sexual touch and gentle attempts helps break the cycle of avoidance. Patterns emerge that conversations miss.
3. Therapy-adjacent couples
Not everyone has access to couples therapy. Rekindlr is not therapy, but it helps you show up with data - what worked, what didn't, what you tried.
Not everyone has access to couples therapy. Rekindlr is not therapy, but it helps you show up with data - what worked, what didn't, what you tried.
4. After infidelity or betrayal
Rebuilding trust is a daily practice. Rekindlr lets you log the small acts of connection that together rebuild what was broken.
Rebuilding trust is a daily practice. Rekindlr lets you log the small acts of connection that together rebuild what was broken.
5. People learning to ask for what they need
If you struggle to initiate intimacy conversations, the journal gives you a safe space to practice the language before you use it with your partner.
If you struggle to initiate intimacy conversations, the journal gives you a safe space to practice the language before you use it with your partner.
6. High-stress couples
Work, kids, life. When intimacy gets pushed aside, Rekindlr tracks the patterns so you can see which weeks are hardest and plan around them.
Work, kids, life. When intimacy gets pushed aside, Rekindlr tracks the patterns so you can see which weeks are hardest and plan around them.
7. Partners of people with low libido
Tracking attempts without pressure - you log what you did, not the outcome. The AI notices when effort correlates with openness.
Tracking attempts without pressure - you log what you did, not the outcome. The AI notices when effort correlates with openness.
8. People who want to stay ahead of drift
Not every relationship is in crisis. Some people use Rekindlr to make sure they never drift apart in the first place.
Not every relationship is in crisis. Some people use Rekindlr to make sure they never drift apart in the first place.
9. Privacy-conscious couples
No advertisers, no data training, no social features. Your intimate life stays yours. Encrypted at rest, always.
No advertisers, no data training, no social features. Your intimate life stays yours. Encrypted at rest, always.
10. Anyone tired of guessing
Stop wondering whether things are getting better. Let the data show you. One small win at a time.
Stop wondering whether things are getting better. Let the data show you. One small win at a time.
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